Today I’m talking about The Ersties Podcast. There’s a lot going on here, so I’ll get right down to the 5 Ws on this fabulous, piece of fun and accessible sex
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One of my favorite discoveries of the last couple of years is the ability to check audiobooks out of my local library using an app on my phone. I used
Nonmonogamy, Sex Writing, and My Family: Reflecting on Love, Luck, & Acceptance

As you read this I am en route to a wedding in Pennsylvania. It’s the wedding of a family member and thus I will be seeing a lot of family,
Touch Lubricant Warming System & The Long Evolution of My Relationship With Lube

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Cute Brand Alert: Überrime Handmade Silicone

I have to be honest, I’m something of a dildo materialist. I don’t use dildos much at all but when I see pretty/ interesting ones, I want them. Seriously, I
There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys Part 2: No, It won’t sound “weird”, “awkward”, or “confusing

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There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys Part 1: Seriously, It’s completely unnecessary

One of my favorite pieces of feedback I have ever gotten after teaching came from a student in a class I taught during the University of Tennessee’s Sex Week in
Le Wand Petite: Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie High-Powered Wand Machinie

First off, apologies for the title. I just couldn’t resist. Now on to the Le Wand Petite. I’ve had quite the journey with Le Wand. We met and I seriously
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5 Tips For Writing When Your Brain Doesn’t Want To

I am a writer, a writer writes. In my case however, I am also someone with a history of depression, someone with a diagnosis of Hashimoto’s disease, and someone who