I’m going to come right out and say it- I love blowjobs, I just do. They are, pants down, one of my favorite sexual activities. What I don’t love is the way blowjobs are often portrayed – either with lots of choking and roughness or as cursory, something you do to make a penis hard enough to proceed to “real” sex. Where are blowjobs the way I know them? Sensual, mutually enjoyable and fun?
Enter Camille Crimson.
The gorgeous fellow redhead, erotic model and webmaster behind The Art of Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob (heads up- both are NSFW) administers and films gorgeous blowjobs. Her videos are beautifully shot and incredibly sexy. It’s clear that Camille is not only a blowjob expert- she is a blowjob lover. Her work is awesome and I am so excited to have gotten the chance to ask her a few questions about one of my favorite topics!
Hi Camille! Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions. I really enjoy your work. It’s so beautiful and sex-positive pornography (is that even the right word?) I’ve ever seen.
Thanks so much! And yes, beautiful porn is what we call it, and it is absolutely very sex-positive.
Your videos are gorgeous! What is your pre- “The Art of Blowjob” background?
Before The Art of Blowjob we actually had another site called Dolorem (http://www.dolorem.com) and it was focused on erotic photography from a more broad array of sexuality, from tease shots to intercourse. It’s archival, but it’s still up and operational. As for before that, I learned coding a while before and had been doing that, so it worked for making our own sites!
How did you arrive at focusing on blowjobs?
Dolorem was great for trial and error. We found what we loved to shoot, both in terms of technique and in terms of sexual experience. Blowjobs are very dynamic on film, straight-forward to film and I love them. It was a perfect progression.
Where do you think your videos fit in the spectrum of commercially available blowjob representation?
Another big reason we focused on blowjobs is because I just didn’t love what I saw coming from blowjob porn. Either it’s totally incidental before the “real sex” and it’s all on auto-pilot or it’s passive and kind of rough to… quite rough. I love being active when I give a blowjob, using skills and various nuances. So we’re doing something more uncommon by focusing on the beauty.
What do you think is the biggest misconception surrounding blowjobs?
People think that you can’t get pleasure from giving and it has to be a chore. Really, that’s a thought people have about a lot of sex acts. The truth is that you can always get into a mindset to enjoy something if you can find a way to get aroused by the your skill, by the connection or by knowing how amazing you’re making your partner feel.
Is there a “wrong” way to give a blowjob?
As long as you’re sure it’s what the other person wants, there’s no real wrong way to give a blowjob… I would say to beware of teeth unless you’re absolutely sure the person likes it, though.
Is there one thing you think would be beneficial for all blowjob givers to know?
Communication is key. Everyone likes something different… No two people/penises are exactly alike, so ask what they like, try different things and try to be intuitive about their responses.
How about blowjob receivers?
Don’t be rough unless you’re sure that’s okay. Be patient because there’s always a learning curve when someone is getting to know your body and what you like. And be sure to return pleasure in some way. Love is a two-way street!