I just read a horribly misogynistic piece called something like “How To Tell if She’s a Slut” (no, I’m not linking. I don’t want to give him the clicks. I regret
Being Cool With The Sex Archive
Ninjas, Mimes & Hot Sex- The Bedhead’s Quick Guide to Dirty Talk
The more I talk to folks about sex the more I see folks struggling with some of the same stuff over and over. High up on this list is sexual
Poll: The F**k-it List, Because No Way Am I the Only One Who Does This
Sometimes you meet folks and know that if the circumstances were right you’d nail them. Enter the sexual bucket list Last summer when what had been billed as “let’s meet
I Had to Block Someone on OkCupid Last Night And Here’s What I Learned
Last night I got an OkCupid message from a dude who had been peppering me with “small talk” messages for two weeks. It had gotten to the point where seeing
Think “If you’re not sure if you’ve had an orgasm, you haven’t”? Shut up.
It’s been a long time since I’ve ranted so, you know, brace yourselves. Please stop saying “if you’re not sure if you’ve had an orgasm, you haven’t” Stop it. Just
Sex-Positivity, Autonomy and Why I Don’t Sleep With Women
“I think they throw you out of the sex-blogger union for admitting that.” I was having a conversation with what may have been the most sex-positive human being I’ve ever
Stop saying “Friend zone”. That’s not a thing.
Flipping through Jezebel last week I was greeted with the news that, in what can only be described as proof that humans are getting dumber, “Friend Zone” was recently
Cherry Picking: Let’s Rethink Virginity
When I lost my virginity it was an intellectual rather than a physical act. I’ll explain in a minute. The “losing the virginity” narrative is one that I think we
Poll: Does Sexy Underwear Even Matter? Like, At All?
I admit it, I have a sexy underwear buying problem. I know Victoria. She’s told me her secrets. I have a bunch of sparkly, pretty, impractical but gorgeous matching sets
I Have First Date Sex and No, I’m Not Killing Courtship by Doing So
I could easily have tweeted the jist of this piece: I have first date sex because I like sex. I didn’t tweet it because I’ve been getting increasingly up-in-arms about
