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Learn The Business of Sex Blogging with Me & Epiphora!

  In just 3 days it will be the 3rd anniversary of this website. I can’t believe how quickly that time has gone by and how fortunate I have been

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Stop Clutching Your Pearls Folks, Hook Ups Can Actually Be Healthy

    You may have noticed that in the last couple of years there have been a bevy of stories about hook-up culture, online dating, friends with benefits and the

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Body Positivity & Weight Loss Poll

  Hey folks, I’ve been mulling over this question and I’d love to know what you think. When it comes to living a body positive life, is there ever room

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Sex Shop Treasure Hunting

I talk a lot about small, feminist boutique sex shops – heck, I went on a whole tour of them! Often, though people ask me about navigating bigger shops, shops that

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I Got to Talk to Sex Nerd Sandra About Sex & Depression!

Back in 2012, after my marriage split up when, I knew one of my goals was to have a happy, healthy, really hot sex live but I had not a

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Will Work For Sponsorship – Online Workshop

  Are you a blogger or educator who is interested in traveling to conferences, conventions and expos but aware that these things cost money? Have you heard of this magical-sounding

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5 Tips For Writing About Sex & Depression

Last week the fabulous Crista Anne appeared in the Philadelphia City Paper talking about her “Orgasm Quest” –  a project based on her mission to recover the orgasms she has lost

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Join JoEllen At the Sexual Health Expo!

Hey folks!   Check it out, I’ll be appearing at the Sexual Health Expo in January and I’ll be sharing my tips for shopping like a sexy superhero! So, if

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5 Ways Tumblr Porn Can Revolutionize Your Sex Life

Update: At the end of 2018 the Tumblr-pocalypse hit and the site did away with just about all content that could be considered “adult”. It was a sad day and

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Lube, Muppets and Paperclips: The Bedhead Gets an Office

For years I have fantasized about having an office in my home. Just a small space that was reserved for work stuff and the collection I don’t want in my

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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