Over the last couple of weeks I’ve been hit with a barrage of stressors. Some have been physical, some mental/emotional, some financial and some just have to do with my
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Tents, Naked Strangers, Boyfriends and Revelations
So, I went camping over the weekend. Surprising, right? Wait, allow me to elaborate. Over the weekend I slept in a tent at an event attended by an overwhelming (for
The Birth of the Bedhead- One year ago…
A year ago today I was in the grips of an existential crisis. I felt certain that I wasn’t fulfilling my calling (as it were) but I wasn’t sure what
I’m an Introvert and I’m Dating a Burner. Let’s Discuss.
You know how when you are dating someone and you start meeting their friends you inevitably field the question “So, how did you meet?” a million times? Picture that except
STI-gmata: What happens when you think your pleasure warrants punishment
I have been living in OR for 6 weeks. I have required medical attention 4 times. WTH? Anyway, it reminded me of this piece I wrote for Good Vibrations last
Poll: The F**k-it List, Because No Way Am I the Only One Who Does This
Sometimes you meet folks and know that if the circumstances were right you’d nail them. Enter the sexual bucket list Last summer when what had been billed as “let’s meet
I put my dresser in my living room and it, for reals, changed my life
I feel like I’ve spent the last month going almost non-stop with reviews and shop write-ups (There are still a few more of each to come) stopping occasionally for some
I Had to Block Someone on OkCupid Last Night And Here’s What I Learned
Last night I got an OkCupid message from a dude who had been peppering me with “small talk” messages for two weeks. It had gotten to the point where seeing
Sex-Positivity, Autonomy and Why I Don’t Sleep With Women
“I think they throw you out of the sex-blogger union for admitting that.” I was having a conversation with what may have been the most sex-positive human being I’ve ever
Dildos, We-Vibes and Canadian Airport Security
At the Feminist Porn Awards Wolf Hudson told us how he had been held at the airport for 2 hours on his way into the country because, as he said
