A topic of great importance to me is depression and the impact it has on sexuality. I’ve been doing a ton of research lately (I’m working on something… we’ll talk
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2 Years of Bedhead: Pictures, Thank Yous and Mushy Stuff
I’ve had a bunch of milestones to celebrate lately. Last night was the one-year anniversary of Sex Geekdom Portland, the recent launch of the Portland Academy of Sex Education was
22 Things I’ve Thought About in the Days Since the UCSB Shootings
I’ve been shell-shocked in the wake of the UCSB shootings. The violence was horrific, yes, but I’ve found myself horrified as much by the internet response as by the shootings
You’re Doing It Wrong!!! 4 Ways to Mess Up Masturbation
It’s Masturbation May, a time to celebrate the wonder that is self-love. It has come to my attention that there are some fairly common practices can make masturbation not-so-fun so I
5 Ways to Stay Sex Positive When You’re Dealing With Depression
I’ve been having a hard time writing these last couple of weeks. New insurance led to a switch in which particular generic form of my antidepressant I received and lo
The How I Met Your Mother Finale Forgot the Rules About “The One”
If you are still, now, days later, trying to avoid finding out how the How I Met Your Mother finale went down, don’t read this. You’ve been warned. On Monday
Lobbing Love Bombs from a Safe Distance
So, you may have noticed I haven’t been around the social media world much the last couple days. If you’ve been looking closely you may have noticed that the only
Not Knowing is Half the Battle
One of the best moments of my sex geek career happened a couple of weeks back on a Friday night. Now, a lot happened that night. I taught at the
Anxiety, Inadequacy and “That Girl” – on melting down
I meant to have an awesome post about the cervix ready for you folks today but I seem to have acquired the dreaded “crud” and don’t have the mental energy
Calling Myself Out – I Haven’t Written in Months
Last week I sat down to craft a post showcasing my enormous ego favorite posts of the last year and as I was going back and reading over the last 12
