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Review: PalmPower Wand & Attachments- Reinventing My Masturbation

Once you have reviewed a bunch of toys you find that you start to repeat yourself. There are several “game changers” more than one thing that’s “completely different” and “new

A couple months back, when I put out my 2015 Sex Toy To-Do List and included the PalmPower Wand , Dizzygirl mentioned that she thought I should check out this

So you know when you’re about to embark on a totally new, totally foreign experience and you are having a hard time figuring out what it will even look like

Every year I make a sex toy to-do list and set about, well, doing it. Towards the end of 2014 I tweeted that I was pretty close to completing my list

Did you know I took a break from reviewing toys? From last April to September I went through this phase where I decided I couldn’t talk about serious stuff and

Okay, I’m not going to lie to you – I’m way behind on toy reviewing. Some of this comes from being hit with a deluge of products when I reentered

I realized that I have been remiss in sharing a piece of news with you folks. At the end of 2014 I came to a conclusion: I love big wand-style

So, I don’t have a penis which makes it odd that I’m reviewing the TENGA Black Flip Hole Masturbator, a toy made specifically for use on penises but the cute

Update: L’amourose is no longer making toys and thus these are no longer available. It’s a shame, these were awesome. Brace yourselves kids, in addition to hearing about some rad

I know I talk a lot about awesome, body safe toys that are also quite pricey but there is a love of my toy life that you may not know about, that

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JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

Reviews Archive

Review: PalmPower Wand & Attachments- Reinventing My Masturbation

Review: Swan Wand – New Member of My Starting Line Up

Review- My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory by Cooper Beckett

Review: Nobessence Seduction

Review: Electric Eric E-Stim Vibrator

Mini Review Sampler featuring Crystal Delights, Je Joue & More!

5 Reasons I Love The Original Magic Wand

Review: Tenga Flip Black – Hole in One

Review: L’amourose Rosa and Denia – Halle-freakin’-lujah!

Review: The Tracey Cox Supersex Power Vibe – An Old Favorite Lives On