Reviews Archive

Review: Nobessence Romp – Romp-ing with Wood!

I’m going to start this off in a way that I would generally discourage reviewers from opening a write up of any product, here goes: I’m not really into butt toys,

Update 11/20/16: Unfortunately Scroguard seems to have died a quiet death rather than evolving. Last year I was going to a play party and thinking about how several STIs such as

There are some things that I love but just don’t own/use a whole lot. On that list: glass toys. I really love glass as a toy material, I tend to

Okay folks, it’s story time! On September 7th 2012 I walked out of the courthouse after my divorce hearing, boarded a Cleveland Circle-bound C line train, got off at

I’ve always been a little curious about Liberator products but when it came down to it I would just say “eh, why not use pillows instead?” I mean I harbor

***NOTE: SADLY THIS PRODUCT HAS BEEN DISCONTINUED*** As time goes on I am developing definite toy preferences. When it comes to dildos I have come to really like toys with

Okay, so this was part of LELO’s April Fool’s joke! Sorry guys, no Left Handed Orgasms for you! The adult toy market is full of products claiming to be innovative

I remember a day in pre-school when we were all enthusiastically finger painting — I was really going at it, I loved me some finger painting. When we were done

A while back I reviewed a Tantus toy that I quite loved – the Echo Handle dildo. I could say almost nothing negative about this toy. Okay, when pressed I

I have made no secret of my great love of Tantus toys so when they first started making paddles I was intrigued. I remember the first time I held one. It

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JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

Reviews Archive

Review: Nobessence Romp – Romp-ing with Wood!

I Tried a Product Everyone’s Mocking- My Take on Scroguard

Review: Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set

Review: Doxy Wand Massager- The Dawn of A New Era

Review: Liberator Wedge- Get Down On It

Review: Ursa Clear Glass Dildo With Handle

Review— The LELO DEXTRÜS or My New Security Blanket

Love Is Art — Where Sex Meets Finger Painting in The Coolest Way Ever

Review- Tantus Echo Vibrating Dildo

Review: Tantus Plunge Paddle – Not One For Hitting & Quitting