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Come As You Are- A Superhero Sex Shop Needs Your Help #savecaya

UPDATE: Massive Outpouring of Customer Support Saves Come As You Are

Support local businesses- we need as many places like Come As You Are as we can get!

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We’ve been over this before – Good Sex Shops Matter. That’s the driving force behind the Superhero Sex Shop Tour. One of the shops featured on the tour is Toronto’s Come As You Are– a cooperative (worker owned and operated) sex shop founded in 1997. In 2007, in honor of its 10th anniversary Come As You Are officially stated these as its core values:

  •  sex the way you want it
  •  customer service that helps
  •  no come ons
  •  be accessible
  •  be the anti-experts
  •  be worthy of trust
  •  create nerdy fun
  •  contribute co-operatively
  •  be generous
  •  working harder to make sex easier
  •  live our name

Shops like this need to exist. But  Come As You Are is facing serious financial difficulties and may soon be forced to close.

According to co-owner Sarah Forbes-Roberts. “It is time for us to be honest about what is going on with the company,” she says. “We have all seen companies go out of business in Toronto that we’ve really treasured, so we wanted to give people a chance to come support us in these hard economic times.”

To that end Come As You Are released a statement letting customers know what’s going on and what they can do to help. Click the link below to read the entire statement and hear about some cool upcoming events -um, hello? Tenga Egg hunt?! Awesome! Check it out:

Use It or Lose It/It’s Time We Talked

Feeling lazy? Want to skip the link ? Here’s the tl;dr version – the store is awesome and needs your help to keep on being awesome (as opposed to closing) If you want to help out, here are some options presented by the good people at Come As You Are (Quoted from their site, so the “we” in question is the shop):

“The USE IT OR LOSE IT Sale
We’re having a huge sale in-store and online next weekend (March 29-31), but because you are so lovely and have subscribed to our newsletter, you get 20% off all sex toys and 2-for-1 DVDS RIGHT NOW! The official sale might not be quite this sweet, so take advantage. Use coupon code USEIT to get your 20% off online right now.

The I DON’T NEED ANYTHING RIGHT NOW Sale
Okay, so you’re fully stocked up on sex toys? No problem. Show your faith in us and invest in your future pleasure with a $100 gift certificate for a mere $80! That’s 20% off any future purchase! We even promise that if we end up going out of business that you’ll get first dibs on our stock.

The I WANT TO HELP BUT I’M BROKE TOO Sale
We hear that! We need to you help spread the word. Tell your friends about the sale! Like us or post about us on Facebook or retweet us on Twitter. Review us on Yelp or check-in onFoursquare. Even better, forward this email!

The I WANT TO DONATE Sale
Okay, this one isn’t a sale exactly, and we feel funny asking for donations because we’re a retail store, but if you’re feeling especially charitable, visit www.comeasyouare.com/donateto send a few dollars our way.”

Even superheroes need a little help sometimes and if you can help in a way that involves buying sex toys why not? When else in life is it like “Let me do this favor for you- oh! now I have many orgasms!”? Um, never. This is a unique opportunity, so what are you waiting for?  Let’s do this folks!


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JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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