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Hey folks! So, if you’ve been following me here for a while, you may have noticed that I have been writing A LOT less than I used to. Here’s the thing, I love to write and, frankly, I’m damn good at it but as an essayist I found my options of “monetize my blog through advertising” or “pitch to a bunch of different editors in the hopes that one will pay me $50” unsatisfying and, with my long history of depression and anxiety, untenable. It left me frustrated and made me hate the blog I once loved. Enter Patreon! Now you can help keep me writing by supporting my work while getting a bunch of cool perks!

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Patreon is a membership platform that connects content creators like myself with fans and supporters like you! Mainly, it offers financial tools that let supporters subscribe to projects that give creators a predictable income stream as they continue to create content. In my case, you can sign up to support me for as little as $3 and in return, you will get some pretty cool stuff. 

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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