Dildo Home Security and Lube Hair Care: Sex Geek Life-Hacks

Lube In My Hair: Sex Geek Life-Hacks

I love a good sex geek life hack.

At this point I’ve gotten in the habit of using a dildo for home security

Yep, I sometimes sleep with it in my bed just in case I needed to fight anyone off.

and a vibrator for sinus congestion

The fabulous Crista Anne demos vibrator sinus drainage.

So it makes sense that one of my favorite products for EVERYTHING from household use to hair care (seriously, I often have it in my hair!) is silicone lube. My good friend, Kate Kenfield and I got to talking about it the other day and we came up with a couple of our favorite non-sexual uses for silicone lube to share with you, check out our video!

Do you have any favorite #sexgeekhacks? Let’s hear ’em!

By the way, if you feel compelled to pick up some silicone lube, my personal favorite is überlube

Get it here:
überlube, SheVibe, Early to Bed, She Bop, Lucky Bloke,

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.