To be honest, I don’t really believe in aphrodisiacs. I think the idea that a substance would get you all ready for sex to be, at best, problematic. That said,
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Avant Pride: Let’s Talk About Gorgeous AFFORDABLE Silicone

I first got a look at Blush Novelties’ Avant line of silicone dildos last January at ANME and I’ll admit, I was smitten. I restrained myself though as I tend
Review: Sola Sync- Vibrators, Accessibility, and What Makes a “Wand”

Buckle up folks because while this is kind of a review, it’s also a lot of me having FEELINGS about vibrator terminology. Namely what makes a “wand”. Anyway, today we
Social Media: Cant Buy The Love

In addition to writing and teaching about sex, one of the things I enjoy doing professionally is helping other develop their careers writing and teaching about sex. To this end
Good Sex Shops: The “How” Is As Important As The “What”

It’s been just over 5 years since I first declared that good sex shops matter and hit the road to tour North America’s best adult retail establishments. Over the years I
SHUT IT DOWN: Why I (Legit) HATE Valentine’s Day

A while back I shared a tweet about an idea that I still think is pretty good I once saw an article proposing the movement of Christmas to late February
The Playground Conference is Back and I Can’t Wait!

In less than a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading to Toronto for the exciting return of the Playground Conference! Along with Stephen Biggs, I’ll be presenting Keep Giving a
Having Sex In Public, Comfort, and Letting Go of “Should”

I have a long distance partner who I see a couple of times a year and with whom I have a lovely ongoing email correspondence. One feature of this is, perhaps obviously,
Realistic Sex Dolls: Because, obviously this is the thing they figured out

I don’t know about you folks but I frequently blurt out “It’s 2018! How do we not have teleportation/jet packs/time travel etc yet?!” Basically I feel like movies and books sold
Review: Fondlove Vibrating Portable Massager

If there’s anything we know about me when it comes to toys it’s that I love wands. Seriously, can’t get enough of them. Way back at the beginning of 2015 I